Thursday, May 20, 2010

Adam jangan nangis...

I am writing this in the dark squeezed between two sleeping boys. Rindunya nak menulis dan membaca (blogs that is) but unfortunately don't have the luxury of time. Malam tadi spent a couple of hours buat bunga pahar. It is about 80% finished. The thesis and papers I'm supposed to review remain untouched. Takpe, insyaallah akan diusahakan before the deadlines.

Next week will be a hectic week for me. You see, my bibik has finished her 2 year contract and will be leaving us for good. Dah sebulan kot drum into my children's heads bibik nak balik kampung. It won't be easy on the children, especially my boy, but he'll just have to deal with this separation, and I'll just have to deal with a heartbroken child.

People who resort to having a helper at home tentu banyak cerita baik buruk bibik mereka. Pros and cons. At the end of the day if I come home to happy children then alhamdulillah, that is all that matters.

Ani is my second helper. Meli, my first helper also went back after finishing her 2 year contract. Aida was 2+ at the time and Adam was 6 months. Aida demam seminggu after Meli left. Not looking forward when Ani leaves; Adam is a sensitive soul.

Patah tumbuh hilang berganti...

The new helper will be Ratna. Turini and Sintawati weren't good candidates said my agent. I'm going to have to take a one week leave to train her when she comes...Mudah2an ikhlas nak kerja dan pandai babysit the children, amin.


Sorry for this pic. Ini gambar poyo. Tapi tak ada gambar bibik...


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11 comments:

diana sidek said...

hello yummy mummy!!good luck in training your new bibik. hope she's OK! :)

CiKaYu said...

this morning baru dgr pasal isu bibik kat Hot.Fm. hope ur bibik ni blh jaga anak2 dgn baik.

ICA said...

YM, hopefully you'll be blessed with another good one this time around too....

fizamior said...

hihihihi... at 1st ingatkan nak letak gambar bibik...biar betul! :D

screamingmommy said...

YM hopefully a good bibik will come, on our side nothing much we can do except doa je lah beb..hopefully the one yg dtg ikhlas nak kerja n love kids.

Hanum said...

mak aya dear... all the best and may Adam & Aida continue to be happy with the new bibik. Amin...

h4ni3 said...

nak ambik maid pun quite stressful kan
hopefully u'll get a good one :)

psstt.. patut caption kat gambar tu tulis 'ini bukan gambar bibik' hehehe

Yummy Mummy said...

Thank you my lovely ladies, I hope so too, amin.

Unknown said...

i dah tukar maid 2-3 kali. alhamdullilah maid yang latest ni ok sgt. dah syg anak i mcm anak dia sendri..

Ermayum said...

i pun current bibik the 2nd one baru - yg dulu jaga my boy dari baby - but alhamdulillah takda pulak ter attach - dulu sibuk panggik ana ana . he called ana first before pandai sebut Ummi :)bila takda now buat dek ja heheh, iya byk cite buruk pasal bibik but again like u said give and take as long jaga anak kita elok sikit2 tu pejam mata ja la - good luck dear may yr new bibik as good or better than the last one

Yummy Mummy said...

QB, yeah rasanya pernah terbaca your experience with the previous ones. I'm glad you finally found a good one. Kalau terpaksa nak kena pakai maid ni tak boleh serik until you find the right one.

Thanks erma, my boy ni dia lain sikit daripada kakak dia yang tough tu. He was a shy baby and got attached quickly. Dia dah besar sikit ni baru la nak keluar out of his shell. Tu lah mudah2an dapat orang yang baik, amin.

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